“you have to agree to be friends with me”

You didn’t get the response from me you were expecting. im not sure what your point was still. i just know that you didn’t like the response/reaction you got, so you chose to get increasingly more passive aggressive and pretended like you were fine (visibly upset at this point, no hiding it) and then kept escalating when you were asked a question in good faith.

You try to get a point across, it doesn’t land the way you want it, so you start acting like the other person is the problem. you start being passive aggressive, gaslighting etc.It’s difficult at that point to even engage with you because you’re not being reasonable. When I speak to you like that, you lash out, but seem to expect me to just take it.

So basically, I was struggling to understand a point that I’m not really grasping yet, and the person explaining it to me isn’t doing a good job, and is getting more and more visibly frustrated. I’m trying to show that I see you’re upset and that I take it seriously, but It’s starting to irritate me and I don’t really care about the point you’re making because you’re being so shitty. then on top of that, you lie and say your not upset. It’s insulting really.

you do this all the time when a conversation doesn’t go the way you want it to. Instead of putting in a little effort to explain yourself better, or try a different approach, or letting it go, you just get an irritated tone and start to trying to force the conversation the way you want it to go. It’s obvious that you’ve abandoned trying to explain the topic, and now you’re just trying to win an argument.

I kept trying to give you an out. I kept trying to get you to let it go. I kept explaining I wasn’t sure what response you were looking for. I was bending over backwards to try to be reasonable. You didn’t notice a single bit of it. It’s really astonishing how out of touch you are.

You don’t give a shit if you helped your friend or not. You just wanted to make a point. That point was so important to you that you INSISTED on making it even when it was clear i didnt care.

I’m sorry communication is hard for you, but I’m not your punching bag. It’s not my fault YOU are not getting YOUR point across the way YOU want. You can keep acting like everyone else is the problem, but you’re just gonna keep making a fool out of yourself.